When we try to talk to somebody, and then you’ll see that person’s preferences are different, and likes and dislikes are different. So it is hard to continue to remain in communication with someone. There are certain tips or hints one can always keep in mind while having the communication going on.
There Should Be Some Common Ground While Communication
And these tips I would like to share. Now, people have different emotional wavelengths and then they behave according to the energy they’re sitting on. Sometimes you meet with somebody and then you see that person is talking about the past, past losses, talking about how it used to be in the past, and how fast it used to be glorious, and how the present is not that great and things were better in the past. And when a person is so much fixated on the past. For me, it seems like that he’s not in the present time, something is there, which is keeping him glued to the past.
You Should Not Move On From His Energy
So, I will also talk about my past with that person knowingly. So that person can better relate to me. And if that person feels that you know, life is miserable, and nothing is going right and everybody is miserable, everybody is in grief or sad or sorrow. And those are the words of the communication. So, in order to remain in communication with that person. I will not suggest that person to move on from his energy and be or feel like somebody else. I will encourage him to look more on those things and I’ve also shared my incidents.
So, my experiences of being sad or sorrowful in my life, that way, we will have more reality with each other. And otherwise, if I will say okay, I understand it was painful. But now is the time to move on and try to learn to be happy. And don’t try to learn to live happily, follow this or that bad. So, that will ease you out of those things he will not like because his energy is not at a point where it is ready to move on because it is very sticky energy. It moves very slowly and wants to remain the way it is. So talking to that person and telling him come on, life is beautiful, enjoy being in the present time will not work.
Do Not Try To Ask Him To Change His Emotional Energy Right Away
So this is one tip, if somebody is showing grief, or sorrow, or sadness, or misery, do not try to ask him to change his emotional energy right away. Rather than be a good friend, match your energy with that person and try to share your experiences when you are sad, or whatever miserable is going on in the world. That way he will become a better friend to you. And that is one tip to remain in communication with somebody who is distraint his emotional energy. Thank you
YouTube Channel Name: Dr. Alka Chopra Madan
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